Waiting for the perfect time to get in shape?
by: Adam Meadows
by: Adam Meadows
When it comes to health and nutrition, we’re always waiting for the perfect time. We feel like it’s all or nothing. Go hard or go home. No in between. And when it’s not perfect, or if we slip up, we automatically think…
“I’m the worst… this won’t work.”
So we wait.
For when things are less busy.
For when we find the right workout program.
For when we get that raise.
For when the weekend is over
Tomorrow. Next week. Next month.
We’re always waiting for the right time. Because putting it off is easier than actually putting in the work and doing it. The fear of failure can be scary, and we want to avoid embarrassment and criticism. Unfortunately, we let these fears stop us from evolving into healthier versions of ourselves.
NEWS FLASH: When you have the mindset of “all or nothing”…
…you usually get nothing.
You sell yourself short and never grow to your true potential.
“The perfect time” is really just a fictional fantasy land where kale tastes like cake and barbells are made of cotton candy. There will never be a perfect time. It doesn’t exist.
(if it does… don’t be stingy… we all deserve kale that taste like cake)
But, I’ll let you in on a little secret…there may be a perfect moment.
The perfect moment is now.
Stop waiting around for some magical moment. Sure, if one comes along where the stars align and you feel better and more motivated than ever, definitely take advantage of it.
(also… if barbells turn into cotton candy… celebrate that)
But don’t wait around for it.
There’s going to be a lot of moments throughout your journey, and a single magic one is just a small part of a much bigger picture.
Your fitness and health journey isn’t about perfection. It’s about progress.
Consistent manageable (but significant) small steps forward.
Maybe you don’t have an hour to go to the gym, but what do you have? 20 minutes? 10? Work with what you have. It doesn’t have to be perfect. But making it work is what makes a difference.
The key is to just start.
You might say, “well right now just isn’t good for me”, or, “I just don’t have the time.”
But you can.
The problem is you’re not focusing on … beginning.
Who remembers Michael Scott after he leaves Dunder Mifflin to start the prolific ‘Michael Scott Paper Company’?
Your mind is jumping somewhere into the future and you feel like there’s just too much to do all at once.
It doesn’t have to be big or perfect.
Remember, something is better than nothing and every step forward is a step towards where you want to be. Even small things eventually add up to make a big change.
Maybe you start reading about nutrition.
Or start going for a 10-minute walk during your lunch break.
Whatever it is, take it one small step. But make sure it’s something that will keep you moving to that next small step.
Remember… starting means action.
Not thinking about taking action.
You don’t start a race and just stare at the finish line.
(if you do… maybe don’t sign up for anymore races)
No… you put one foot in front of the other, one step at a time. As long as you’re moving forward, that’s a start.
Many people give up at the first sign of resistance because they think it means they’ve failed.
They forget their headphones at home so they can’t go to the gym after the afternoon meeting.
Or they try eating salad but can’t stop craving sweets.
Resistance doesn’t mean you’ve failed.
That’s just how it feels sometimes.
That means you are moving forward and making a change. Changing your patterns will take some effort at first, but it won’t feel like that forever.
Remind yourself, when you do start feeling that way it means that you are making a change. It’s not failure, it’s improvement.
Sure, we can get started and keep moving on our own.
But it sure is nice when you have someone helping to push you up that hill.
Find someone to hold you accountable.
To encourage you on those less-than-motivated days.
You don’t have to do this all on your own. Asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness or something to feel ashamed about.
We all need help.
Having that support is what motivates us to keep moving forward, even when we’re feeling discouraged.
A friend, coworker, family member, whoever. Just someone to help you stay positive on the hard days. Because we all have them.
You’ve got this. Now, go start.
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